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Thoughts: Love Means Always Having To Say You Are Sorry

September 1, 2017 by admin Leave a Comment

Thoughts Love Means Always Having To Say You Are Sorry

“What can you say about a twenty-five year-old girl who died?

That she was beautiful. And brilliant. That she loved Mozart and Bach. And the Beatles. And me.”

I don’t have the slightest idea as to why I am writing on this topic, given that I have as many as ten incomplete blog posts on far more interesting topics, waiting to be completed and posted. Also what shocks me is the fact that I am not even a big fan of Love Story by Erich Segal (from where the above lines have been taken) or love stories in general. Still, these lines seem to have a great deal of effect on me. They are simplistic; yet so non-naive.  It’s hard to decide whether I like these lines more or do not like the whole book more. But I think I shall settle with the former. I am totally in awe with the lines. I felt that it was the perfect opening lines for the (not-so-perfect) book.

A short take on the book (read: on love stories) – The book’s short note on the back cover reads, “Love means never having to say you’re sorry…” Ah, the usual idealistic stuff. One of my friends (Rudrath Kaul 🙂 ) retorted with “Love means always having to say you’re sorry…” I must say, he is quite practical. I guess, true love is the perfect oxymoron. No, am not prejudiced, and neither do I have some bitter experience in love that makes me think so. It’s just that the over-hype that usually follows love everywhere, in every corner of the world, makes me hysterical. Frenzied, to put in colloquial terms. And love stories have only added to the over-the-top expectations from relationships. Why can’t something so pure and pristine (I like it to associate love with the Divine) be just left to be felt and experienced by themselves by the individuals. Why is there any need to read love stories and just further complicate the already obscure and incomprehensible relations?

Only God knows. Or the readers. Or the writers perhaps. Atleast I hope they do. I wouldn’t deny the fact that I was one of those who were caught in the false shine that this genre of books carries with themselves. Having already hated (or disliked; hate is too strong a word to use) the Twilight movies, I still bought the so-called classic love story. Alas, having had my share of reading it, in a way I know better now; to stay away from these kind of novels-just unrealistic, superficial and impractical in their approach. The real world where we live is a mean place to eat, pray and live love. Atleast that is what I think or rather, feel. Maybe I am being raw. I do not know. I do not speak or think ill of love. Just the extraneous importance that it carries, making people neglect their work is what I disapprove of. Love should let it follow its own course; take its own time; shape in its own way. As the saying goes, while we are here, we can love along the way. Not the other way round.

Filed Under: Thoughts Tagged With: Bach, Beatles, book, books, classic, Erich Segal, experience, Girl, hysterical, love, love stories, Means, Mozart, novels, oxymoron, Reading, relationship, Sorry, Thoughts, true love, Twilight, writer, writing

Love Notes, Paragraphs: Most Romantic Love Letters For Her

June 2, 2017 by admin Leave a Comment

Love Notes, Paragraphs: Most Romantic Love Letters For Her

He wouldn’t look at me. The vestige of the body he found so alluring, once, has become a grody apparition-dreaded and vapid. So like a crumb of bread, jilted and forgotten for weeks on end, beneath the table. I move and stand behind him, sometimes beside him and then stymed and frantic, in front-in his ambit of vision. He turns away ,and quite suddenly finds a divination in the astral heavens, the leaves start metamorphosing for his sole revelry ,apparently  thriving on his very  attention. My heart begins filling with despair, my mind with impudence and flout. Nobody dares ignore “Tanmayee”. The beauty, he had me believe in, is. The eyes that idolized him are the same, adulation and all. Even the mind filled with the same rubble of ruminations and quaint ideas, which were so enthralling to him, time was.

I stand there, stock-still, benumbed into inertia, anguished into silence. The will to accost or beckon him, seeping out of me costively. I feel like a balloon languidly deflating into nothingness, into zilch or a timber slowly dwindling into ashes-to be blown about  wantonly  by the wind. Mind insensate, tongue obtund, i watch him swagger about, rosy and complacent, in the comfort of his sphere. I whirl about and retrace my steps back to my house, and well-nigh collapse on finding myself standing before his door. I bolt from there, scorched. All the memories of love-soused moments, cascading behind my eyes, drenching my face wet. I wish I could wipe away, with a brush of my hand all the recalls, dreams ,hopes and expectations-both tangible and conjured; wipe away the slate of my heart clean and start over, but if only life were that facile!

The night that followed was squandered jactating, like ever so many of its predecessors. Peace was elusive, repose even more so. Sleep fickle.

Rays of hope filtered through my window next morn, as I catch a glimpse of his blinds pulled back, but an epoch later, all is sable in my heart again. I see him not.

I see him not for days on end. Emotions of any kind appear extraneous to me. I drift through life, like an automaton, drowned in perennial silent despair. Lost. A quarter of a month passed, and fate was  up to its snares again. As i stand in my balcony, staring into oblivion, I hear a cadence of resonant laughter – familiar in ring, enchanting in content. My hopes revive. I skirt to the door and on opening it espy a woman, beautiful, wispy and effervescent walking away with her arms entwined with….with…..

Threshold of my grit had been breached. I stand rooted, mind screeching denial, consciousness hounded, pressured, conniving for escape. I slid back mutely, lay down, mind still incessantly darting about, looking for a route of extrication.. Aeons seems to have passed, cosmos work around the clock, without halt, uncaring. The twin cycle of night and day, day and night over and over again, right before my unblinking eyes. The being inside my body convulsed, as it reached finally, for a sterile ‘strip’ of atonement and sleep. The pills felt ligneous in my parched, “famined” mouth…..
The doorbell seemed to cry out, ever and anon and soon it thundered with stoic determination. So much chaos, too much bedlam inside my head. I lug my body to the door to put an end to the deafening din and through the clink see him standing, gazing at me with a soft inquisitiveness, then fluster, then horror. Soon after I get an impression of being cosseted rather avidly and i double as waves of nausea wash over me, ending eventually in churning out little pebbles of arid achromic affliction. I feel myself being held, winnowed and hoisted inside as a voice as honeyed as church carillons pour into my ears and my eyes find their salvation in his tears.

A gossamer smile is born to our lips. All is whole again, in this part of the world!

Filed Under: Thoughts Tagged With: beautiful, best, Emotions, Love Letters, Love Notes, loving you, message, Most Romantic, musings, paragraphs, poem, story, Thoughts, wispy, woman, writing

How to create successful businesses out of hobbies?

January 13, 2017 by admin Leave a Comment

How to create successful businesses out of hobbies

Having a hobby not only helps spend time constructively but also be creative and innovative. Those who do not have any hobby cannot live their life fully. One just needs to take out sometime during the day. One can either take up painting, singing, dancing, writing or anything as a hobby. Working and non – working both can have some hobby.

Whilst working people can relax and become creative with a hobby; no – working people can spend the leisure time in some worthwhile task or activity. Not just that non – working people can even make a business out of their hobby. For instance, those who have painting as a hobby, can over a period of time hold a painting of art pieces and make known to the world the hidden talent. One can also earn a worthwhile amount out of such a hobby. The same holds true for other hobbies.

Many a times, what starts as a hobby grows to an extent that it can turn out into a business. Writing is another example. A writer can compile the literary pieces and publish a book. There have been many instances in the past wherein, people have made a successful business out of their hobbies!

Avoid too much reporting in your small business

I asked one of my friend few years back, “what have you been doing, you look tired”. He said, “It’s my #!s$#*@ boss, he keeps telling me to make reports. I am sick and tired of it. There’s no further developments but he says I need the reports on Every Monday and Friday and all.” The problem here is not the boss but the reports. But, that’s how people react when they do stuffs which are of little or no use. There are two possible solutions for this. One is to make sure that reporting is done once in a month or in fifteen days or the boss should have explained why these reports are needed? I have always been against with too much reporting from the beginning. Reports are necessary but if you dedicate your time in things which are already present then, when will you create something new. Planning is necessary but I have seen some people, they keep planning and end up doing nothing. You need to have proper balance with plans and their execution.

How to learn things?

Some great men have said that if you repeat a certain action for 21 days it becomes a habit. Well that requires a lot of patience .Some tried out tips are mentioned below:-

  • Mnemonics are your best friends, if they are not try befriending them. Mnemonics are certain riddles or funny connotations that you attach with your word or a set of information. For

e.g. to recall the 8 parts of speech you can device your own mnemonic like PAPA VINC for (verb, preposition, conjunction, noun, pronoun, preposition, adverb and adjective)

  • Or we can connect it with a funny incident or a sentence like Mom Very Eagerly Made Jam Sandwiches and Uniform Nine Pizzas. Which helps you remember the name of the nine planets in sequence.
  •  It might appear childish but the brain needs to be tricked into remembering information. Certain gamed can also be made out for learning for e.g. to make your child remember how many days are there in each month you can teach him the hand game. When you fold your fist and turn back you see rises and depressions. Each rise accounts for 31 days and each depression for 30 except February.
  • Brain can be trained to do anything but what it requires is repetition, so the old maxim stays practice does make you perfect. Writing also helps sometimes in exams you remember the page where you had written that something down which helps you recall an answer.
  • This tip is a bit hard but try it out if you can. While going to bed if you recall something and there is some part which you cannot remember do get up from the bed and look for it. Believe me you would never forget something which made you take all the pain.
  • There is a famous saying that says if you want to remember your wife’s birthday all you have to do is forget it once. Recalling dates is something that we all have hard time doing. We all do remember our national holidays we can try relating it with the anniversaries that we keep forgetting, for e.g. you can associate your wedding anniversary with the independence day like how many days after it does the day comes when you lost your independence. You will have to give it a thought or else you can just set a reminder on your phone.

Filed Under: Business Tagged With: adverb and adjective, Businesses, conjunction, dancing, hobbies, Mnemonics, noun, painting, preposition, pronoun, reporting, singing, small business, verb, writing

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